Student Suspended for playing the part of a Male In Cheerleading Routine!

*photo taken from Jamaica Gleaner April 2014



Ever since this story came out a day or two ago it has been creating some serious waves in Jamaica. Apparently a student was suspended from a christian university in Jamaica because of the fact that she played the role of a male in a cheerleading routine. She was suspended for two weeks and you know final exams are close.

I do not see what the big deal is about that they needed to suspend this student.  I mean she was not doing anything in appropriate and she didn't hurt anybody. so what is the fuss?
Why do the people always make christians seem like loony "Jesus freaks" which most of us are not.

And also even though lesbianism or homosexuality may not be as supported in Jamaica  as in other countries, if she chooses to dress and act like a male that is her choice. This is basic human rights.
Get this they even asked her if she had a boyfriend!
Are they serious right now?
You cannot force your ways on other and I think this student should really decide to sue.

Everybody this story got me going for like all week. If you have not read about it, check it out http://jamaica-gleaner.com/latest/article.php?id=52158

XOXO

Toni-Shae Panton

How to deal with cheating!

Well I think the picture and the topic pretty much says it all. I will be taking on the topic of cheating today.
For most people you either know of someone who was cheated on or you were cheated on yourself. You see the emotional hurt that comes with it and how it may have even changed a person's outlook on life.

For me this topic is very simple...if you don't love a person just leave, women/men are not a buffet. You can't have a little of everything. I mean if women or men are your weakness have a open relationship.

But what really gets me is the fact that some men or women cheat with everyone who will allow them but when they get cheated on it is the biggest crime ever.

Sadly if you are a person who was cheated a decision has to be made. I'm going to try and list out all the possible options and which best could help you.

1. End the relationship and leave.
2. Instead of being exclusive just have an open relationship.
3. Work through this rough patch- This may include getting counselling and talking about what caused he/she to decide to go outside the relationship.

Everybody I know I only have three options but I could not think of anymore *laughs*

I'm going to explain them to you.
So, if the guy wants to date everyone in the world why not just have an open relationship. I mean you get to date anybody else you like, but you still get to come home to that person everyday. This decision would basically be a win win situation for everybody or most people.

If you feel like you still love this person and you want to work it out get counselling. It may take a while to gain back trust, but if you think the relationship is right do it. But don't get me wrong now, if this person's actions are making you cry everyday no matter what your heart is telling you use your brain and LEAVE.

Finally if you are upset and you can't even stand to see this persons face just leave this relationship. It makes no sense, especially if you look at this person as if you are about to slash their throat at any moment now.

I personally would have either tried to work through it if I really loved the person or just end it all. I am not one for open relationships...I mean girl "ain't nobody got time for that."

Think about your future and love yourself first.

XOXO

Toni-Shae Panton