5 Guys that are the biggest waste of your time -Advice

I am back with another blog post on life.
I am here with 5 guys or just persons in general who are your biggest waste of time.
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In life we have either dated one of these men or heard of them. After the relationship ends or even during the relationship your days are spent counselling. His ex is so distraught about his actions.
Today, I am going to help you spot the men you should avoid. Hopefully, this will help with your present or future love life. One thing we should all remember is to never put anyone above yourself. Unless you are religious, then it would be God or any other supreme being. Do what you know is best for you and always seek needed help.

5 Guys to avoid:

1. The womanizer- This is the guy that seems "oh so cool" and always claims he is never in a relationship. He always acts like he is too cool to show much emotion in public. Yet in private you are his "world" and only you two know there is a relationship because he does not want anyone is his "business."
The list could go on of the warning signs. In some recent times it has even become harder to find who they are. Some men do not display any signs.
Always remember to trust you instinct. If you are not comfortable leave.


2. Man afraid of commitment- Well...either he is never in a relationship and it always ends as a result of the actions of everyone else, never him. Or maybe he is one of those men dating women for years with no sign of a marriage or engagement in site. I even saw a case where a women dated a man for ten years before he worked oven commitment issues and finally proposed.
If you really love him do what you think if best.
I am telling you what I would do. Between 1-4 years you are suppose to figure out whether you want me to be your wife or not. Before you approached me you should have solved all of your problems.
To think about it this way, it is emotionally draining to try and think you can fix someone. Each man has to make a decision for himself or you will just be causing yourself unnecessary hurt.


3. The cheap guy- He is always complaining about money. His bills always seem to be the highest and he is always low on cash. There is always another reason for him to never buy you anything not even a birthday present.
I know some independent women want to buy their own things. I totally agree with that. But, I am from a family where the man should provide. There is no way I should be dating you and if I am ever in need I can never call you. I think that is a waste. It shows you what your marriage would be like. Have you ever heard of some wives complaining that their men don't provide. That is because many times he never had to do anything during the dating stage. Trust me the dating stage is when a man tries to impress you the most.
Also, do not think it is because of his income why he does not do certain things. I remember I met this guy once who was far from wealthy. He still made sure I never wanted for anything. I was not showered with designer gifts but, he still did the gentleman like thing.


4. The abusive man- Stay away from him. He is like poison. He wants you to spend your days with him and him alone. You should not have any friends and in some cases not even talk to family. At first you thought, the possessiveness was not too bad until he said some creepy line like he would kill himself if you left. This is a man to run from once you spot the signs. He will not change. He will only get worse.


5. Men who put you last- We have all heard of those stories everything else is before you whether in a relationship or marriage. He either spends most of his life with his business, his mother or his friends. Frankly you are tired of it and he does not seem to care. All I can say is tell him how you feel or leave. Some men will never change or you may not be as important to him as you think.
One other important thing to note is to ensure you are not being just too needy. If he is a businessman you cannot expect him to be calling you every five minutes.

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Cyberbullying- Advice and Rant

Welcome back!

I was not really planning to talk about this anytime soon. But, I just had to. It is becoming such a major problem now.
So, I am just strolling on instagram(follow me @mzpanton) looking at pictures and I am shocked at the amount of  hate and negative energy out there. As I look at a picture of some random pretty girl on the popular page, I can just check for the mean comments under her pictures. The worse part about this to me is the fact that half of the people saying hateful stuff do not even know the person personally. Why would you just write random profanity under a person's picture you don't know?

For me, the only reason I can find that people would do this is simply because they want to have that person's life. They are jealous.
Just imagine these people are commenting that a person should go kill themselves!
How does that even sound justifiable in your head. To make matters worst some people call this freedom of speech. No, this is straight cyberbullying. Many of these people would not have to courage to say the same thing to a person's actual face.

This entire cyberbullying thing just annoys the heck out of me. Thank God, I have never experienced it. I do not promise that I would be as calm.

If you are one of those people taking part in this trend please stop.


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THE BEST AND THE WORST OF HALLOWEEN :)

Halloween is officially over and you know with halloween comes costumes!

Some costumes were great and others were terrible tragic, so I am here to show you the best and worst of halloween. I hope you don't get nightmares :)

Miley was dressed as Lil' Kim.

Ellen Degeneres was dressed up as Nicki Minaj

Heidi Klum dressed as an old lady.

With halloween over let the countdown to christmas begin!

XOXO

TONI-SHAE

GET THAT MONEY!

I have been hearing all over so many beautiful girls saying that if school fails just marry well. Lets just think about it, haven't we all made a couple jokes or too about it...I know I have.

Now everyone out there is looking for a sugar daddy.
I am not here to bash all of those girls out there who like having their sugar daddies because that is just what they like.
But before you engage in these relationships here are somethings you should know.

1. Whoever you are dating ensure you actually like them for them and not their money because trust me rich men can spot a gold digger from 5 miles away. Apart from what people think they are not stupid and they will sleep with you but hardly ever marry you.
2. Don't go around trying to use people because karma is a heck of a thing. I am sure if what you did came back to you wouldn't like it.
3. Ensure that you can actually support yourself if this man leaves you.I have seen too many people out there that after the man leaves them they fall flat on their faces. First they were wearing Prada now they can barely afford Old Navy.

And for all of those people killing relationships out there, age is not a big deal I totally believe love has no specific age barrier or limit, so if you want him go get him. Do not listen to all the negativity if you feel it is right go get him!

XOXO

TONI-SHAE

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MISS WORLD DRAMA!

What is this drama I have been hearing that Miss World 2013 had been dethroned?
I have seen it everywhere, even my mom who is not into beauty pageants heard about it. I found out days later that is was a lie and the Bulgarian media was just trying to stir up drama. I mean I knew some these countries took pageantry seriously but, I never thought they would go this far. It looks so darn childish, like something a 14 year old would do.
Look at me, Miss Jamaica did not win and you don't see me kicking and screaming. It is a competition so come back next year better and stronger.
Stop the crap and act like adults!

Miss World 2013, Megan Young totally deserves it. I wish her all the best. I know she will make both the Philippines and the World proud.

XOXO

TONI-SHAE

KIDS STOP THE SEX TAPES!

I just had to do a blog post on this. What in the Lord's name are these kids doing?
Why is a 14 year old having sex tapes and releasing pictures. I mean if you are grown and you have your significant other and you want to do 20 sex tapes in a day that is your business. But to see this from a minor is just worrying! I am not saying these kids of this age are going to be saints but, they need to learn to keep their hormones in check and be wise.
Not because I guy says he loves you means it is true and no matter what you think you are not adults yet. Look at it this way when you have no one else to answer to you can do that crap with no care in the world.
These kids don't understand that what they do now can really affect them. I mean when they want to apply for university and/ or even a job they will find these things. These pictures are online forever no matter what and then some perv will have those pictures on his laptop just looking at you.
The worst part of it all the person who decides to leak these images may end up actually being arrested for distributing child porn.

Be smart, stop this crap and if you ever need anyone to talk to email me tonishaepanton@gmail.com



XOXO

TONI-SHAE PANTON

SLAVE TO FASHION!

I have been going out lately and sadly noticed that people are such slaves to fashion, it is as if they have no personal style. Not because you saw it in a fashion magazine means that it would fit your body type or even look good on you. It is as if I see just walking replicas of each other everywhere.
At times it even seems like being different is ridiculed which, I clearly cannot understand.

Why is it that being different is so wrong?
Fashionistas don't be a clone of the rest of the world, make your mark. When I see you I should see who you are shinning through. Always ensure you know who you are, what you stand for and most of all live life with no regrets.

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XOXO

Toni-Shae Panton

SUGAR DADDIES!

This is going to be so short !
Let me start by explaining what a sugar daddy is:- a sugar daddy is seen a rich older man who lavishes gifts on a young woman in return for her company or sexual favours. One thing I really realize is that when people see these relationships they automatically begin judging. I have seen and actually known  people who have been in relationships with older rich men and the first thing people say is that "she is only with him for his money," which is not true. People start judging completely and I think that is so mean. I am certainly not with a older man but, it definitely gets on my last nerve when people start judging others as if they are saints. I believe in doing what you want to do, just as long as if it is best for you. People only get upset when they see someone else's relationship because they wanted to be with that guy.
Many are with sugar daddies because they are not economically stable so, they go out looking for this man as their meal ticket. The poor man is sometimes in love and they are just using him. So he is in this love bubble while, she is sucking him dry lol but, on the other side of the spectrum they get married for love. Personally, I have seen some of those relationships blossom into long term marriages and even last way longer than others.
So I am telling you all stop judging if it is not your business LEAVE IT ALONE!

XOXO
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MESSED UP EYEBROWS!

Guys how often have you been out and see that one girl walk in with the most messed up eyebrows. I don't know about you but, I see that like almost everyday. Seriously, if you do not know how to do your brows go watch some proper youtube tutorials or just keep them natural. Please stop embarrassing yourself, I am begging here!
Worse to add fuel to fire some of your friends are telling you that you look great. I know some of you may be thinking maybe their friends don't know any better either. But, when all of your friends makeup looks professional and yours is the only one that looks like you played in crayola something in wrong.

This brings me to the point of choosing your friends wisely. You want friends that are going to tell you the truth and not just agree with you because you are popular or have money. Trust me if the only thing your friends every do is to agree with you even if they know it will lead to your demise, chances are you need new friends.
SO with all of that said if your eyebrows look like the ones in these pictures get some professional makeup classes or just watch some youtube vids until you get better.


 Later guys

XOXO

TONI-SHAE

HONEY WHERE ARE YOUR CLOTHES!

I mean guys I have never been one to say really bad stuff about someone else's fashion sense, but I think it is time for me to talk out. I am standing up for my rights lol.
Why are people not wearing clothes anymore!!! Even when you walk on the street you almost always have to see someone with their butt hanging out or they are in clothes that look 2 sizes too small. I really wonder if they know it does not look good, I don't care whether it is in style or not...IT IS NOT CUTE.

Like no matter how cold it is outside there is always that person in the skimpiest outfit and it led me to wonder do they have some internal heating system that I don't know about lol. I mean when everyone else is cold they are acting like it is in the middle of summer.

I mean I think a lot of women or younger girls need to learn that you can be sexy without literally walking around naked. The guy you like does not need to see everything when you are walking by. But if that is your style by all means don't change if you are comfortable but, please for my sake if you ever see me down the street just pull down those shorts.
And on my last note I hope any of you guys aren't dressing like that because some guy said he likes to see you like that. It does not make any sense to do that, if he loves you he will accept you the way you are. I mean my boyfriend has seen me when I look good, bad and ugly and he still loves it.

LADIES STOP WALKING AROUND NAKED...that is all for today.

XOXO

TONI-SHAE :)