Life Update: New Job, Frustration, Relationships

Welcome back readers. I know I have been such a horrible blogger, I couldn't even remember when last I posted. But I decided I was finally going to take time out to blog.

Job changes

Let me start by just updating you on my life. I have officially started a new job and best believe me it has surely been a test. Everyday is another learning experience. Since the beginning of this job I have been through it all, even disrespect and jealousy. But, that is a whole other blogpost. One morning I was even in tears, I just did not want to go to work that day. It sounds so immature hearing it back right now. 

What keeps me sane is to look at it all as a learning experience. Best believe this job keeps me on my knees. I am always praying. 

So, if you are reading this and going through the same thing just know that everything is for a reason. Your later will be greater. Hold on and you will see what will happen. Also, never stop until improvement comes.

Relationships

I am the new face of the single club...best believe it. But with that said, everyday I learn something new about myself. Some of them good but others not so good. Surely I have learned to always focus on self improvement, self love and awareness don't wait on others to make you happy. If you do you will forever be sad. 

People always keep telling me that my standards are high*laughs*. That is surely not a bad thing for me. Never settle for foolishness because you will be the one dealing with it

Everyone I promise to make at least one blog post a week and maybe even youtube videos. Thank you to the loyal persons who have kept visiting my blog.

Happy New Year to you all. I wish you love and happiness. 

Also, just wondering am I the only one without resolutions this year? I don't even know if that is a good or bad thing. I am taking everyday as they come.

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XOXO 

Toni-Shae Panton

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5 Guys that are the biggest waste of your time -Advice

I am back with another blog post on life.
I am here with 5 guys or just persons in general who are your biggest waste of time.
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In life we have either dated one of these men or heard of them. After the relationship ends or even during the relationship your days are spent counselling. His ex is so distraught about his actions.
Today, I am going to help you spot the men you should avoid. Hopefully, this will help with your present or future love life. One thing we should all remember is to never put anyone above yourself. Unless you are religious, then it would be God or any other supreme being. Do what you know is best for you and always seek needed help.

5 Guys to avoid:

1. The womanizer- This is the guy that seems "oh so cool" and always claims he is never in a relationship. He always acts like he is too cool to show much emotion in public. Yet in private you are his "world" and only you two know there is a relationship because he does not want anyone is his "business."
The list could go on of the warning signs. In some recent times it has even become harder to find who they are. Some men do not display any signs.
Always remember to trust you instinct. If you are not comfortable leave.


2. Man afraid of commitment- Well...either he is never in a relationship and it always ends as a result of the actions of everyone else, never him. Or maybe he is one of those men dating women for years with no sign of a marriage or engagement in site. I even saw a case where a women dated a man for ten years before he worked oven commitment issues and finally proposed.
If you really love him do what you think if best.
I am telling you what I would do. Between 1-4 years you are suppose to figure out whether you want me to be your wife or not. Before you approached me you should have solved all of your problems.
To think about it this way, it is emotionally draining to try and think you can fix someone. Each man has to make a decision for himself or you will just be causing yourself unnecessary hurt.


3. The cheap guy- He is always complaining about money. His bills always seem to be the highest and he is always low on cash. There is always another reason for him to never buy you anything not even a birthday present.
I know some independent women want to buy their own things. I totally agree with that. But, I am from a family where the man should provide. There is no way I should be dating you and if I am ever in need I can never call you. I think that is a waste. It shows you what your marriage would be like. Have you ever heard of some wives complaining that their men don't provide. That is because many times he never had to do anything during the dating stage. Trust me the dating stage is when a man tries to impress you the most.
Also, do not think it is because of his income why he does not do certain things. I remember I met this guy once who was far from wealthy. He still made sure I never wanted for anything. I was not showered with designer gifts but, he still did the gentleman like thing.


4. The abusive man- Stay away from him. He is like poison. He wants you to spend your days with him and him alone. You should not have any friends and in some cases not even talk to family. At first you thought, the possessiveness was not too bad until he said some creepy line like he would kill himself if you left. This is a man to run from once you spot the signs. He will not change. He will only get worse.


5. Men who put you last- We have all heard of those stories everything else is before you whether in a relationship or marriage. He either spends most of his life with his business, his mother or his friends. Frankly you are tired of it and he does not seem to care. All I can say is tell him how you feel or leave. Some men will never change or you may not be as important to him as you think.
One other important thing to note is to ensure you are not being just too needy. If he is a businessman you cannot expect him to be calling you every five minutes.

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The Wray and Nephew Contenders

Hey everyone! I hope you are doing great because I have :)

I just have to talk about this show that has seriously been a must watch for me. It is called the Wray and Nephew Contender. It deals purely with boxing, but this year it has been past exciting. Since this season has started there was never a dull moment which was kind of shocking for me. Realistically I thought that if I just watch boxing every week eventually it would get tired. But it actually has not. They have boxers from all over the Caribbean but it takes place in Jamaica.

The quality of boxers are great! Every week has proven to be past exciting and on top of that there is great eye candy.

Example 1 my fav Sakima Mullings

I'm predicting him to win this year.








Ladies and gentlemen I promise you that if you watch it you will never be disappointed. It's on Wednesdays on TVJ if you are in Jamaica. For overseas readers I think there is a live stream of the show.





LOVE YOU GUYS

XOXO

TONI-SHAE

CELEBRITY DRAMA A.K.A MIXUP!

Like seriously  everybody, I have been scrolling on social media and there have just been some stories that I have seen that I just had to comment on. I mean this week has just been drama filled. It is worse than an episode of bad girls club.







1. Have you seen that picture that 13 year old willow posted with that 20 year old guy? I am sure you did. Guess what child protective services are investigating her parents! I am guessing they are just ensuring that Will and Jada Smith are good parents.

Well guys I don't know about you, but if I took a picture like that when I was 13 in Jamaica my parents would never be comfortable with it. This picture is highly suggestive. I think for 13 that child is under no control...I thought she was older than I am. *laughs*



2. Ray J gives Kim-K the best wedding gift ever.

There is never a dull moment with Ray-J around...that is for sure. Well I am sure you know Kim-K is getting married soon. Being the nice person Ray J is he decides to give her a wedding gift.
Knowing Ray J it is no ordinary gift. Turns out he gives her a cheque for $47K from the proceeds from their sex tape.
Talk about trying to rain on her parade!
Is Ray J trying to rain on her parade and gain even more popularity? I think so and it is working.

3. Rob Kardashian's weight gain.
This isn't a shocker to me but hey people are excited.
So Rob gained more weight...I do not know why it is such a big deal. I mean people are being catty and just downright rude and I do not get why. Some of these people criticizing do not even have a leg to stand on because they are bigger than he is.
All I am saying is that stop being mean. You do not know what he is going through. Before you talk try to walk a mile in another persons shoes.
One thing I am glad for is that his sister Khloe came to his defense. She did not just leave her brother out in the cold.




4. Readers I am going to end on the happiest note ever! Ciara finally had her baby!

I am so happy for her. She made pregnancy look so easy. She looked fab in every picture.
Congrats to Ciara and her fiance Future.




I hope you guys enjoyed it!

XOXO

TONI-SHAE PANTON

CRAZY GOOD UP AND COMING TALENTS!

GOOD MORNING MY BEAUTIES :)
I don't know if you have been keeping up with the Jamaican music scene later, I know I was not really before until I came across these two talents.
One of them you may already know, her name is Samantha J. She is a sixteen year old artist which you may know for her son "tight up skirt."

This was made a remix for Jamaican artist Red Rat's song "tight up skirt" made in the 1990's.

I am not even going to joke she is a great artist especially, just being 16. But, would I want to be the parent of 16 year old  singing that she is the girl in the tight up skirt...probably not. I am going to give her props where they are due she is a great artist and I wish her best of luck.

Our other talent is a Jamaican producer from CRF BEATZ known as Rovaunie. He is a gospel producer but, I do think he has places to go. He provides a new and edgy look to the Jamaican gospel scene. 

Here are a free samples of some of his work.

https://soundcloud.com/crf-beatz

Check him out on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/crfadvocate8701

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XOXO

TONI-SHAE :*

INTRODUCING MISS JAMAICA UNIVERSE!

So our Miss Jamaica Universe was crowned recently! Her name is Kerrie Baylis, she is so beautiful!
I mean just look at her <3
We wish her the best of luck and we know our island Jamaica will be so proud.

Go Team Jamaica!

Congratulations to our Miss Jamaica World 2013 who made it to top 10 in the Miss World Pageant.

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XOXO

TONI-SHAE

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PETA LEAVE KATY PERRY ALONE!

I still can't believe this crap that I am hearing! Why is PETA critcizing Katy Perry for the use of animals in her new music video 'roar.' PETA claims that these "Animals used for entertainment... endure horrific cruelty and suffer from extreme confinement and violent training methods. They often also become stressed and anxious when hauled around and forced into unfamiliar or frightening situations." 
This is such a serious accusation that before I begin to cast  such serious judgement I need to get actual proof.
I mean watching this video over and over again I don't see any abuse of animals. I see nothing wrong here. Is it that they know something that I don't or is it that PETA has nothing better to do with their time like helping the less fortunate. 
Do they just like to hunt down celebrities without a valid reason?
The most I could see that was wrong with this video was that it was a little corny *laugh*
People are getting too over the top with these claims just stop and find something else to do with your time. They just need to STOP!


TEAM KATY!

FASHIONABLE BLACK WOMEN!

I am so tired of hearing the stereotype that black women cannot be classy or they cannot dress their body properly so, today I am going to show you some great outfits worn by black women.

Little Nori West!

This is the cutest baby I have ever seem in life. I am totally speechless...just thought I had to show you guys little Nori.

XOXO
TONI-SHAE

SUGAR DADDIES!

This is going to be so short !
Let me start by explaining what a sugar daddy is:- a sugar daddy is seen a rich older man who lavishes gifts on a young woman in return for her company or sexual favours. One thing I really realize is that when people see these relationships they automatically begin judging. I have seen and actually known  people who have been in relationships with older rich men and the first thing people say is that "she is only with him for his money," which is not true. People start judging completely and I think that is so mean. I am certainly not with a older man but, it definitely gets on my last nerve when people start judging others as if they are saints. I believe in doing what you want to do, just as long as if it is best for you. People only get upset when they see someone else's relationship because they wanted to be with that guy.
Many are with sugar daddies because they are not economically stable so, they go out looking for this man as their meal ticket. The poor man is sometimes in love and they are just using him. So he is in this love bubble while, she is sucking him dry lol but, on the other side of the spectrum they get married for love. Personally, I have seen some of those relationships blossom into long term marriages and even last way longer than others.
So I am telling you all stop judging if it is not your business LEAVE IT ALONE!

XOXO
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Rihanna no big deal!

I really don't get why people are over reacting about Rihanna's costume and her behaviour at carnival. Once you have visited the Caribbean around the time of carnival you would have seen that what she was wearing was perfectly normal. I am not saying that it is not exposing, but I just don't see the big deal. People are creating this big thing that she was whining or twerking and partying hard but, here its kinda normal for carnival.
So I am telling you all, stop overreacting because she is not doing anything that has not already been done.

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That's all peeps.

Jamaican Beauty 

HOT MAMA!

We all know how fabulous Halle Berry is, I mean even when she hit her 40's she was still looking great! I mean she looked better in shorts than I did *laughs*
She provides so much fitness inspiration for me.










But now she pregnant as we all know. She still looks so cute pregnant so I am going to show you some of her pregnancy looks that I loved the most.
















I think even pregnant she glows so much.
I hope you like the blog post.

XOXO

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UP CYCLING -PROM!

 

Guys today I am going to show you a preview of my prom dress from last year. 

Shopping was so stressful for me, I could not find a dress that I liked and on top of that everything was so expensive. I thought that I am not seriously going to spend a lot of money for something that everyone else would be wearing. So I decided to take a regular dress and make the best of it. I went to my local trimmings store sewed them unto the dress and made a matching headband.

Even though it wasn't what I had in mind in the beginning it worked out the best. I saved so much money and I got compliments all night. 

XOXO

TONI-SHAE