New Beginnings

I'm a bit nervous to start blogging again...more like extremely nervous. It has been so long since my last blog post.
I just think I had lost passion for blogging and I needed to find myself before I could start again.


Looking at myself now so much has changed about me. If I can say so myself I am  full on woman!
Maturity and life has surely set it. I spend my days working and my nights I use to pursue a law
degree in Jamaica...talk about being busy.

For all who are just visiting my blog I would like to introduce myself to you.

I am a blogger born and bred in Jamaica. I am passionate about my family, my life and love. I believe that one should always try to achieve their goals and never stop until you get that.
I love the idea of being in love even though I think I have never been there. I love all things beauty and as such my blog will encompass all of this.

I do have a lot on my plate but I feel the need to take on my passion for blogging once more.

I'm sure that this can one day help someone or at least provide some entertainment for the time to go by.

Hey I may not be the best writer out there but, I am giving you the best that I have. The content may not be the same as in previous years but it shows the growth in me. I will try to have at least one post every week on set topics.


Enjoy the journey and I hope you will be reading every blog post!


Yours truly

Toni-Shae Panton
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Life Update: New Job, Frustration, Relationships

Welcome back readers. I know I have been such a horrible blogger, I couldn't even remember when last I posted. But I decided I was finally going to take time out to blog.

Job changes

Let me start by just updating you on my life. I have officially started a new job and best believe me it has surely been a test. Everyday is another learning experience. Since the beginning of this job I have been through it all, even disrespect and jealousy. But, that is a whole other blogpost. One morning I was even in tears, I just did not want to go to work that day. It sounds so immature hearing it back right now. 

What keeps me sane is to look at it all as a learning experience. Best believe this job keeps me on my knees. I am always praying. 

So, if you are reading this and going through the same thing just know that everything is for a reason. Your later will be greater. Hold on and you will see what will happen. Also, never stop until improvement comes.

Relationships

I am the new face of the single club...best believe it. But with that said, everyday I learn something new about myself. Some of them good but others not so good. Surely I have learned to always focus on self improvement, self love and awareness don't wait on others to make you happy. If you do you will forever be sad. 

People always keep telling me that my standards are high*laughs*. That is surely not a bad thing for me. Never settle for foolishness because you will be the one dealing with it

Everyone I promise to make at least one blog post a week and maybe even youtube videos. Thank you to the loyal persons who have kept visiting my blog.

Happy New Year to you all. I wish you love and happiness. 

Also, just wondering am I the only one without resolutions this year? I don't even know if that is a good or bad thing. I am taking everyday as they come.

Don't forget to share with friends.

XOXO 

Toni-Shae Panton

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5 Guys that are the biggest waste of your time -Advice

I am back with another blog post on life.
I am here with 5 guys or just persons in general who are your biggest waste of time.
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In life we have either dated one of these men or heard of them. After the relationship ends or even during the relationship your days are spent counselling. His ex is so distraught about his actions.
Today, I am going to help you spot the men you should avoid. Hopefully, this will help with your present or future love life. One thing we should all remember is to never put anyone above yourself. Unless you are religious, then it would be God or any other supreme being. Do what you know is best for you and always seek needed help.

5 Guys to avoid:

1. The womanizer- This is the guy that seems "oh so cool" and always claims he is never in a relationship. He always acts like he is too cool to show much emotion in public. Yet in private you are his "world" and only you two know there is a relationship because he does not want anyone is his "business."
The list could go on of the warning signs. In some recent times it has even become harder to find who they are. Some men do not display any signs.
Always remember to trust you instinct. If you are not comfortable leave.


2. Man afraid of commitment- Well...either he is never in a relationship and it always ends as a result of the actions of everyone else, never him. Or maybe he is one of those men dating women for years with no sign of a marriage or engagement in site. I even saw a case where a women dated a man for ten years before he worked oven commitment issues and finally proposed.
If you really love him do what you think if best.
I am telling you what I would do. Between 1-4 years you are suppose to figure out whether you want me to be your wife or not. Before you approached me you should have solved all of your problems.
To think about it this way, it is emotionally draining to try and think you can fix someone. Each man has to make a decision for himself or you will just be causing yourself unnecessary hurt.


3. The cheap guy- He is always complaining about money. His bills always seem to be the highest and he is always low on cash. There is always another reason for him to never buy you anything not even a birthday present.
I know some independent women want to buy their own things. I totally agree with that. But, I am from a family where the man should provide. There is no way I should be dating you and if I am ever in need I can never call you. I think that is a waste. It shows you what your marriage would be like. Have you ever heard of some wives complaining that their men don't provide. That is because many times he never had to do anything during the dating stage. Trust me the dating stage is when a man tries to impress you the most.
Also, do not think it is because of his income why he does not do certain things. I remember I met this guy once who was far from wealthy. He still made sure I never wanted for anything. I was not showered with designer gifts but, he still did the gentleman like thing.


4. The abusive man- Stay away from him. He is like poison. He wants you to spend your days with him and him alone. You should not have any friends and in some cases not even talk to family. At first you thought, the possessiveness was not too bad until he said some creepy line like he would kill himself if you left. This is a man to run from once you spot the signs. He will not change. He will only get worse.


5. Men who put you last- We have all heard of those stories everything else is before you whether in a relationship or marriage. He either spends most of his life with his business, his mother or his friends. Frankly you are tired of it and he does not seem to care. All I can say is tell him how you feel or leave. Some men will never change or you may not be as important to him as you think.
One other important thing to note is to ensure you are not being just too needy. If he is a businessman you cannot expect him to be calling you every five minutes.

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The ALS Ice Bucket Challenge! -Lisa Hanna

I'm Back!

I just had to share this video. For some reason everyone has been doing this ALS Ice Bucket Challenge. I don't even know how this started but, when one of fav persons did it I just had to share. 

She is the Minister of Youth and Culture for Jamaica, former Miss Jamaica World and Miss World winner.

But, one thing that we need to remember if that this challenge is about donating. Giving to charities and educating others on persons suffering from Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS). I pray that when people do this challenge they will actually donate to the cause.

Educate yourselves on the topic and enjoy!

Maybe one day I will try it :)

XOXO

Toni-Shae 

Rules of the summer!

Summer has arrived and I'm here with the rules for the summer. It is quite important to learn summer etiquette because it seems that the world really needs it.


1. Wear shorts that fit- I know the summer is hot. But if you are a medium and you are wearing extra small pants you may need to revisit your wardrobe. Frankly no one wants to see your butt cheeks so please cover them. Save that for your significant other or something.



2. Don't spend more than you can afford- This is pretty self explanatory. You don't wanna go broke trying to live this lifestyle you simply cannot afford.



3. Ensure that your random hook ups are married- I may not one to condone random hook ups, but what ever you do is your business. But this is important to note. You don't wannabe messing with someone else's husband because karma is a bitch.




4. Take care of your skin- Heat can seriously damage your skin, so it is important to take the necessary precautions to prevent sun and heat damage.



5. Don't forget that manicure and pedicure- This is especially important for females. Ugly looking fingers and toes are not cute. Deal with them as early as possible to avoid embarrassment.



6. Wear body appropriate swimwear- I am all about having confidence is self but certain things should be noted. Ensure your swimsuit is the right size for you and that it can cover you properly. You do not need to be blinding people on the beach!


XOXO

TONI-SHAE




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CELEBRITY DRAMA A.K.A MIXUP!

Like seriously  everybody, I have been scrolling on social media and there have just been some stories that I have seen that I just had to comment on. I mean this week has just been drama filled. It is worse than an episode of bad girls club.







1. Have you seen that picture that 13 year old willow posted with that 20 year old guy? I am sure you did. Guess what child protective services are investigating her parents! I am guessing they are just ensuring that Will and Jada Smith are good parents.

Well guys I don't know about you, but if I took a picture like that when I was 13 in Jamaica my parents would never be comfortable with it. This picture is highly suggestive. I think for 13 that child is under no control...I thought she was older than I am. *laughs*



2. Ray J gives Kim-K the best wedding gift ever.

There is never a dull moment with Ray-J around...that is for sure. Well I am sure you know Kim-K is getting married soon. Being the nice person Ray J is he decides to give her a wedding gift.
Knowing Ray J it is no ordinary gift. Turns out he gives her a cheque for $47K from the proceeds from their sex tape.
Talk about trying to rain on her parade!
Is Ray J trying to rain on her parade and gain even more popularity? I think so and it is working.

3. Rob Kardashian's weight gain.
This isn't a shocker to me but hey people are excited.
So Rob gained more weight...I do not know why it is such a big deal. I mean people are being catty and just downright rude and I do not get why. Some of these people criticizing do not even have a leg to stand on because they are bigger than he is.
All I am saying is that stop being mean. You do not know what he is going through. Before you talk try to walk a mile in another persons shoes.
One thing I am glad for is that his sister Khloe came to his defense. She did not just leave her brother out in the cold.




4. Readers I am going to end on the happiest note ever! Ciara finally had her baby!

I am so happy for her. She made pregnancy look so easy. She looked fab in every picture.
Congrats to Ciara and her fiance Future.




I hope you guys enjoyed it!

XOXO

TONI-SHAE PANTON

GIRL GET THAT COIN!

Hey everybody! I hope all is well.
I have not done a blog post in so long, if feels foreign again. *laughs*
So, one day I was on the internet watching a little snippet from the Wendy Williams Show, which I love so much and I saw a story about Paris Hilton.
Remember her, the blonde American with the sex tape and always embarrassing herself...yup that is the one. Well it turns she is actually smarter than most thought. She is actually a great business woman which I am actually proud to hear.

I guess it may be in her genes. She came from good money, but still managed to make a good name for herself and not live off of her family.
She literally has an empire going on. She has many fragrances plus Paris stores all over the world which not only stock her fragrances, but all her other products then on top of that I think she is going to the hotel business. This is surely an example to people to never take the party girl lightly! Can you imagine her net worth is $100 million dollars!

For me I think she just used that wild persona to get her name out there and maker herself known to the world. Her strategy worked really well!

The sad part about this is that I know some girls will hear of her story now and are probably going to try it. Hopefully they do not end up broke and ratched acting. But most men never usually put the ring on that girl always drunk and just making a fool of themselves. What kind of mom would that be.

I know this idea is slightly random, but Paris' story minded me of some of those gold diggers. I am definitely not saying Paris is a gold digger. But I have seen some of these gold diggers in present times who will take suck a man dry. They open many successful businesses, invest and become millionaires themselves. Trust me never underestimate anybody the women of present times are out to get their coins!


I hope you guys liked the blog post!

XOXO

TONI-SHAE

I LUH YA PAPI!

Loves I have missed you guys :)

Let me get started with this post by saying I never knew Jennifer Lopez still made music videos or just music in general. Anyway I saw it a new video from her and out of curiosity I decided to watch it.

For me this story line was a little too youthful for her age, I mean isn't she like in her 40's. The song was not really that appealing to me, but maybe that is because of the fact that I am overly critical when it comes to music. 

But on a lighter note her body looks great for her age and French Montana killed his verse in the song. For me Montana pretty much brought back the song from never never land in my head, plus the video was high quality.

This song eventually grew on me though.

But don't take my word for it...check it out for yourself.

XOXO

TONI-SHAE PANTON

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REGGAE MONTH AND RASTAFARIANISM!

February is officially reggae month and black history month! But instead of talking about Bob Marley, who by the way is not the only contributor to Jamaica's music industry I am going to talk about the contribution of the Rastafarian movement to Jamaican music. The number one thing I cannot stand is when people like to make it seem like Bob created reggae all on his own! I am not saying he did not help reggae, but God knows give someone else some credit. Sorry I went off on a tangent as usual...time to actually talk about music.

Reggae started as the music for the oppressed and was most popular at that time in the slums of Jamaica, so also was Rastafarianism. Rastas were quite musical people and also were very in touch with their religious views and beliefs. Rastafarians have been credited for bringing reggae and dancehall to the forefront of Jamaican culture and also to the rest of the world. They sang mainly of equality, harsh living conditions and their beliefs which mainly spoke of connecting with African roots.
Reggae was the main medium used to spread their religious views.

But this type of music and belief spread by Rastas were not readily accepted in Jamaica.
They were abused, rejected and oppressed but they never gave up and for that I applaud them.
They were beaten because of the thought of them being barbaric and criminal, mainly because they smoked marijuana and their views were quite far from that of society. Can you imagine being victimized for being different?


Rastas still play a major part in Jamaican musical forms today. If you have ever seen any reggae acts you can know that the Rastafarian religion and the members fight with oppression played a major part in their music, even as if relates to their appearance.
But sadly you still see some trying to take on the Rastafarian religion as a money making tool. Many of them you will see in dreadlocks are not even dedicated to the Rastafarian religion.

It is so weird to see how things change first they were oppressed now it is like they are being accepted more than ever before.

                             Rastafarian documentary if you want to learn something more.

On a lighter note, the number one thing I love the most is a well dressed Rasta man.*heart flutters*
I'm just going to get random her and show you some men who totally embrace the Rastafarian religion, some you may know others you may not.









-Junior "Gong" Marley



Jamaican artist Chronixx accompanied by others.



- Sizzla Kalonji (Jamaican Artist)




-Jamaican Artist Richie Spice


- Buju Banton





The pictures can go on and on but guys get educated on reggae music, trust me you will find the information quite entertaining.

XOXO

Toni-Shae Panton

Don't forget to this song by a some great Jamaican artists....it is pretty good!

VACATION, CHRISTMAS AND THE NEW YEAR!

Hey Loves! How have you beauties been?
I know I have been such a bad blogger lately...I have not made a post in about two weeks. I was super busy over Christmas with my vacation and...it's almost New Year.
Today I will be just giving  you guys and girls a little update on my vacation and what I did for the christmas.

Vacation

Well I spent a couple of days at the Holiday Inn, Montego Bay. It was one of the best experiences I have had in a while. They had a private island, an adult bar and beach, great entertainment and great drinks. Dear God, I did not even want to leave! Plus on top of that there was always great eye candy around :) Seriously of you guys are ever looking for a vacation spot you should try it. It will definitely be a great experience but, my only downfall was the fact that everything pretty much closed by 2am. Who goes to sleep that early on a vacation?! God knows I don't. But guys check out the pics from when I was there.

Don't me guys my hair looked terrible lol

Christmas

Even though all of my family members were not home for Christmas it was still great. I had all the best food in the world! But the number one thing I couldn't stand about Christmas this year was that it was so downplayed. I saw less lights, trees, excitement, everything. But lets hope it will change next Christmas.

The New Year

Let the countdown begin. It's almost the NEW YEAR! But I don't know if I am as into it as I was before. I am not really interested in any resolution. I am just going to hang my friends and spend it at church :)

Some of you guys may be different from me but, no matter what you choose I hope you have fun. 

Have a happy new year everyone.

Thank you to all of my blog readers and you will get even more in the new year.

XOXO

Toni-Shae Panton

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WONDERFUL CHRISTMAS!

It's that time of the year again:) It"s Christmas!!

Time to set up the Christmas lights, turn on the oven and get some cooking done. 

Don't know what to do this Christmas here is some advice on having a great Christmas. 

1. Be early for all family events.

2. Dress age appropriately for all events. Do not walk around with you boobs hanging out and butt falling out of our dress to your office's Christmas party.

3. There is no such thing as too much food. Growing up in Jamaica Christmas has always had an abundance of food: Ham, bread pudding and everything else Caribbean. This being said I am not sure if this would be the best time to start dieting. You may end up gaining more weight than anything else.

4. If you don't know the perfect gift to buy please ASK. The thing I can't stand the most around the holidays is a person buying some tacky gift and then saying I thought of you when I was buying it. That just makes it seem like I have some terrible style or something. So please people if you don't know just ask.

5. Christmas decorations are a must, so before you go around inviting visitors ensure that your house is fully decked out for the season.

6. Too much alcohol is never your friend. Please do not walk around for most of he Christmas season drunk because trust me that is not cute.

7. Do not hook up with random people because you're lonely. Christmas is usually a time where you see a lot of persons getting married or hooking up. If you're single like I am please do not fall prey to emotions. You do not want to be that girl to hook up that one time and have the horrible consequences follow you forever.

8. Please remember that everything done in the holidays will follow you through to the new year. God may forgive but people may not so easily.

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XOXO

Happy Holidays Everyone!

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FASHIONISTA IN THE STREET BUT A TITAN IN THE BOARDROOM!

I cannot stress this topic enough. It is very important to look great when doing whatever you're doing but, if the only thing you have going for you is your looks you may have a major problem. Don't just be one of that girls waiting for someone to buy her those clothes and to "maintain" her lifestyle. It is always great to have someone to take care of you but, always make sure that you can take care of yourself if he leaves.

The number one stereotype I cannot stand held by many business persons is that once a woman is beautiful and well dressed she will not be a good business woman. People generally just think that once you look that great, you should just be some trophy wife who has no place thinking about business. This being said, women you have to work harder to be respected, some of you need to stop acting like you are brain dead! Act like you have some common sense in a boardroom, always be prepared and for God sakes don't sleep your way to the top...unless the boss is you husband *laughs*

ACT RESPECTABLE AND PEOPLE WILL RESPECT YOU 

XOXO

TONI-SHAE