Summer love

It's summer time. It is so time to break out your suntan lotion, pop out your swimsuit and start those summer romances. I don't know about you guys but, for me as it even gets close to summer old guys I have dated start to call back trying to date me again.

For the summer most people just claim that they want to have fun and being in a serious relationship they feel too "tied down." I have known so many people who take a break from their relationship just for that summer. My personal view on that is that you would only feel tied down if you were losing interest anyway. If he or she was making you happy you would not want to break it off no matter what season.

So....to try and help someone out there here are some guidelines when taking part in that summer romance.

1) If a summer fling is your way of entertaining yourself by all means do it but, just ensure that the other person knows what is going on. The worst thing that could ever happen is that person thinking you guys are a couple now when you just wanted to have fun...can you talk about drama waiting to happen.

2) Never get too attached because let us just be straight up here, there is a chance that the relationship was just one of convenience and you guys may never see each other again.

3) If you are thinking of having a fling one of your good friends it may be a bad idea because it can make the relationship super weird if it does not work out.

4) If you are just "playing the field" for the summer dear lord do not sleep with everyone...I mean you do not want to be seen as the summer whore. Leave something to the imagination.

5) Never do anything you will regret in the long run that you would not mind the world knowing of. So, I am begging you please don't do any sex tapes you will regret.

6) Choose where you meet your flings wisely- Do not hook up with someone at any family event...it might just turn out to be your cousin. *laughs*

7) Ensure he or she is not married. I am sure you do not want anyone's husband or wife hunting you down to tell you to stay away from their man or woman. For me I would feel so darn embarrassed.

LOVE YOU GUYS, CAN'T WAIT TO HEAR THE FUN STORIES ABOUT YOUR SUMMER :)

TONI-SHAE

DIY (DO IT YOURSELF)

It's summer time so you know it is time to change out some of those clothes in you closet. I know that can be expensive to do so to save you some money here are some diys that you can do at home.














            












































Love you guys :*
TONI-SHAE

KIM K's BABY NAME

Guys I was not even planning on blogging again today but, I just had to talk about this. It is being said that the name of the birth certificate on Kim K's baby is North West. Now guys don't quote me on this I don't know if it is true or not, but really North West!

Out of all of the names you had to give the child one on a compass! They could have at least been a little more creative...well let me change that they were super creature but the name was not sensible. That child is so lucky she has fabulous parents so it highly unlikely she will ever get teased in school.

But...in the end it is their child so they can do whatever they like.
With all that said I wish Kimye the best.

XOXO

TONI-SHAE

FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS

I know everyone has heard about this type of relationship and a whole lot of you have tried it out. But, for all of you who do not know let me explain. The term friends with benefits is used to describe good friends who have sex together but they do not have any form of commitment.
I know for a lot of men and women say that this relationship sounds heaven sent...no ties, no connection just straight up sex and then you are friends again. It may sound all bright and beautiful but, if you are looking for something more DO NOT enter into this type of relationship. Few of these actually turn into an exclusive relationship and I mean in the mind of most persons why should it.

They get to have sex with you and then they can still be sleeping with who ever else they want without the commitment. Eventually this can end up destroying you emotionally as it is highly likely that you are going to grow to like this person and the other party may not be having the same feelings. And you know all hell is going to break loose if you in love this guy and he starts a relationship with someone else and you are out in the cold. I have seen the remnants of these type of relationships and almost always it ends with some emotional hurt whether people like to admit it or not.

So what I would like to say is only do it if you know you are ready and capable. Do not, I repeat do not enter in  this type or relationship in hopes that he will commit because for the most part it is highly unlikely. Respect yourself and only do it because you want to never let anyone force you into anything. Finally, if you are underage or no where near ready for sex leave it alone is can have serious consequences. It may seem glamorous on tv or in movies but trust me always think twice, sex can change things.




XOXO

TONI-SHAE

SEX IN CHRISTIAN MARRIAGES AND RELATIONSHIPS

Sometimes, I personally think when a lot of Christians talk about sex they go over board with all these do'sand don'ts. Don't get me wrong now I do believe that people should wait until marriage for sex. I think that at that time you are better capable to deal with the situations that will arise as a result. But, lets be realistic here few people wait until marriage. Even some Christians themselves give up their virginity before marriage and to me that is not my business. I am totally upset and it gets on my last nerve when I see people and especially Christians judging others. So what if she had sex early! Why is it your business that she had a child out of wedlock...sometimes it just gets catty and childish like really grow up. Some of them behave as if even talking about sex is dirty.

I have over heard discussions where I hear people saying that you should only have sex one way and oral sex is a forever a no no. You should never experiment with positions or anything like that. Really!
What society are we living in!
Whether you are a Christian or not if you are pleasing your husband physically and emotionally do you think he is going to be faithful?
Change it is up keep your husband excited, ensure that you look attractive to him...get your hair done and keep that body looking top of the line.

You should always try to compliment him as well, just as how you like hearing you look great he likes it as well. This is not only in a marriage but, even in relationships. Do not be afraid to express yourself sexually and emotionally tell him what you like. Tell him to touch that spot that you like seriously he will like it.

Ladies enjoy your time with your boyfirend/ husband don't let any moment go to waste.

That is all for today :)

XOXO

Toni- Shae

BIG GIRL BUSINESS :)

I realize all younger people care about now is swag, I mean what happened to class, sophistication and the luxury life to me that is so much better. I just love the luxury life it gives me motivation to work hard and one day get there...it keeps me on top of your game. But even when you enjoying your life never forget where you came from, your morals and the most important the God you serve.







































































 All my blog readers in Jamaica, USA, Germany, Austria, Denmark, Russia, United Kingdom, Croatia, Peru, South Korea, Panama, Hong Kong and anywhere else I have forgotten I see you.

I love you guys.

XOXO -Toni-Shae

HONEY WHERE ARE YOUR CLOTHES!

I mean guys I have never been one to say really bad stuff about someone else's fashion sense, but I think it is time for me to talk out. I am standing up for my rights lol.
Why are people not wearing clothes anymore!!! Even when you walk on the street you almost always have to see someone with their butt hanging out or they are in clothes that look 2 sizes too small. I really wonder if they know it does not look good, I don't care whether it is in style or not...IT IS NOT CUTE.

Like no matter how cold it is outside there is always that person in the skimpiest outfit and it led me to wonder do they have some internal heating system that I don't know about lol. I mean when everyone else is cold they are acting like it is in the middle of summer.

I mean I think a lot of women or younger girls need to learn that you can be sexy without literally walking around naked. The guy you like does not need to see everything when you are walking by. But if that is your style by all means don't change if you are comfortable but, please for my sake if you ever see me down the street just pull down those shorts.
And on my last note I hope any of you guys aren't dressing like that because some guy said he likes to see you like that. It does not make any sense to do that, if he loves you he will accept you the way you are. I mean my boyfriend has seen me when I look good, bad and ugly and he still loves it.

LADIES STOP WALKING AROUND NAKED...that is all for today.

XOXO

TONI-SHAE :)

Mirror Mirror On The Wall Who Is The Cutest Shoe Designer Of Them All!!

All around the world every where we go all we see is shoes. Some of them you love and others you hate with all you might. Most of the time I think people just end up falling in love with designer I don't know why, but for some reason they just seem more appealing :)
There is no other feeling like walking down the street in those brand knew pair of designer heels...it is sort of empowering. Guys don't get it twisted though I may like designer stuff but there is nothing wrong if you are not wearing designer, as my mother would say clothes doesn't make a man it is his character.
If all you have is regular stuff rock like there no tomorrow make them look expensive:)
There is nothing hotter than a person with confidence and just take pride in what you wear. I mean for me I love a well put together man I mean who doesn't.
I know I just strayed from the point so with all that said here are my 2 favorite designers of all time.


Bridget Sandals-  They are a shoe design company that was started by a Jamaican and is located in Jamaica. I have been so in love with their stuff I hope you guys love it as well.


















Now moving away from Jamaica, my other favorite designer is obviously Christian Louboutin, I mean I don't even need to explain, the one the name speaks for itself. For me they just stood out and concurred, so with that said here are my favorite shoe designs from them.


























Aren't they cute guys <3
That is all for today,

XOXO

Toni-Shae :)