Ever since this story came out a day or two ago it has been creating some serious waves in Jamaica. Apparently a student was suspended from a christian university in Jamaica because of the fact that she played the role of a male in a cheerleading routine. She was suspended for two weeks and you know final exams are close.
I do not see what the big deal is about that they needed to suspend this student. I mean she was not doing anything in appropriate and she didn't hurt anybody. so what is the fuss?
Why do the people always make christians seem like loony "Jesus freaks" which most of us are not.
And also even though lesbianism or homosexuality may not be as supported in Jamaica as in other countries, if she chooses to dress and act like a male that is her choice. This is basic human rights.
Get this they even asked her if she had a boyfriend!
Are they serious right now?
You cannot force your ways on other and I think this student should really decide to sue.
Well I think the picture and the topic pretty much says it all. I will be taking on the topic of cheating today.
For most people you either know of someone who was cheated on or you were cheated on yourself. You see the emotional hurt that comes with it and how it may have even changed a person's outlook on life.
For me this topic is very simple...if you don't love a person just leave, women/men are not a buffet. You can't have a little of everything. I mean if women or men are your weakness have a open relationship.
But what really gets me is the fact that some men or women cheat with everyone who will allow them but when they get cheated on it is the biggest crime ever.
Sadly if you are a person who was cheated a decision has to be made. I'm going to try and list out all the possible options and which best could help you.
1. End the relationship and leave.
2. Instead of being exclusive just have an open relationship.
3. Work through this rough patch- This may include getting counselling and talking about what caused he/she to decide to go outside the relationship.
Everybody I know I only have three options but I could not think of anymore *laughs*
I'm going to explain them to you.
So, if the guy wants to date everyone in the world why not just have an open relationship. I mean you get to date anybody else you like, but you still get to come home to that person everyday. This decision would basically be a win win situation for everybody or most people.
If you feel like you still love this person and you want to work it out get counselling. It may take a while to gain back trust, but if you think the relationship is right do it. But don't get me wrong now, if this person's actions are making you cry everyday no matter what your heart is telling you use your brain and LEAVE.
Finally if you are upset and you can't even stand to see this persons face just leave this relationship. It makes no sense, especially if you look at this person as if you are about to slash their throat at any moment now.
I personally would have either tried to work through it if I really loved the person or just end it all. I am not one for open relationships...I mean girl "ain't nobody got time for that."
Let me get started with this post by saying I never knew Jennifer Lopez still made music videos or just music in general. Anyway I saw it a new video from her and out of curiosity I decided to watch it.
For me this story line was a little too youthful for her age, I mean isn't she like in her 40's. The song was not really that appealing to me, but maybe that is because of the fact that I am overly critical when it comes to music.
But on a lighter note her body looks great for her age and French Montana killed his verse in the song. For me Montana pretty much brought back the song from never never land in my head, plus the video was high quality.
This song eventually grew on me though.
But don't take my word for it...check it out for yourself.
February is officially reggae month and black history month! But instead of talking about Bob Marley, who by the way is not the only contributor to Jamaica's music industry I am going to talk about the contribution of the Rastafarian movement to Jamaican music. The number one thing I cannot stand is when people like to make it seem like Bob created reggae all on his own! I am not saying he did not help reggae, but God knows give someone else some credit. Sorry I went off on a tangent as usual...time to actually talk about music.
Reggae started as the music for the oppressed and was most popular at that time in the slums of Jamaica, so also was Rastafarianism. Rastas were quite musical people and also were very in touch with their religious views and beliefs. Rastafarians have been credited for bringing reggae and dancehall to the forefront of Jamaican culture and also to the rest of the world. They sang mainly of equality, harsh living conditions and their beliefs which mainly spoke of connecting with African roots.
Reggae was the main medium used to spread their religious views.
But this type of music and belief spread by Rastas were not readily accepted in Jamaica.
They were abused, rejected and oppressed but they never gave up and for that I applaud them.
They were beaten because of the thought of them being barbaric and criminal, mainly because they smoked marijuana and their views were quite far from that of society. Can you imagine being victimized for being different?
Rastas still play a major part in Jamaican musical forms today. If you have ever seen any reggae acts you can know that the Rastafarian religion and the members fight with oppression played a major part in their music, even as if relates to their appearance.
But sadly you still see some trying to take on the Rastafarian religion as a money making tool. Many of them you will see in dreadlocks are not even dedicated to the Rastafarian religion.
It is so weird to see how things change first they were oppressed now it is like they are being accepted more than ever before.
Rastafarian documentary if you want to learn something more.
On a lighter note, the number one thing I love the most is a well dressed Rasta man.*heart flutters*
I'm just going to get random her and show you some men who totally embrace the Rastafarian religion, some you may know others you may not.
-Junior "Gong" Marley
Jamaican artist Chronixx accompanied by others.
- Sizzla Kalonji (Jamaican Artist)
-Jamaican Artist Richie Spice
- Buju Banton
The pictures can go on and on but guys get educated on reggae music, trust me you will find the information quite entertaining.
XOXO
Toni-Shae Panton
Don't forget to this song by a some great Jamaican artists....it is pretty good!
Hey everyone and to all my lovies from across the world welcome. Today, I am going to come to you with advice on how to survive the single life.
Am I the only one who realizes that everyone is either dating or engaged! It is almost like you are the odd one out if you are single.
So today I am going to give you all tips and some advice on how to survive these trying times. *giggles*
1. Do not spend your days listening to love songs. This is just going to enhance the lonely feeling you are already having and leading you sort of think that if you are single you are not truly living. If you get what I mean.
2. Do not entertain your friends when they are talking about their happyy little relationships. I kow this may sound a little harsh but, hearing of all the happiness in other's relationships will not help you. This will just make you even lonelier.
3. Focus more on yourself instead of spending your days thinking about potential relationships.
Deal with any emotional hurt you gained from previous relationships and think of ways to improve yourself and your life.
4. Do not go back to your ex.
There was a reason you let him or her, do not go back to that bad relationship! You may be feeling a little low in your spirit for now but that does not mean you should go back to crap.
5. Do not lower your standards. If you do, there is a good chance you may end up in a relationship you may regret. Always keep your standards high no matter what and if these guys or girls does not make the cut that means he or she was not right for you.
6. Do not be pressured into a relationship. No matter if your family or friends are almost forcing you to start dating do not do it unless you want to. This is the best time to 'find your back bone and gain your voice'. If you do not want to start dating do not do it!
I hope this helped someone out there and do not forget that you do not need a man or woman to complete you.
Hey Loves! How have you beauties been?
I know I have been such a bad blogger lately...I have not made a post in about two weeks. I was super busy over Christmas with my vacation and...it's almost New Year.
Today I will be just giving you guys and girls a little update on my vacation and what I did for the christmas.
Vacation
Well I spent a couple of days at the Holiday Inn, Montego Bay. It was one of the best experiences I have had in a while. They had a private island, an adult bar and beach, great entertainment and great drinks. Dear God, I did not even want to leave! Plus on top of that there was always great eye candy around :) Seriously of you guys are ever looking for a vacation spot you should try it. It will definitely be a great experience but, my only downfall was the fact that everything pretty much closed by 2am. Who goes to sleep that early on a vacation?! God knows I don't. But guys check out the pics from when I was there.
Don't me guys my hair looked terrible lol
Christmas
Even though all of my family members were not home for Christmas it was still great. I had all the best food in the world! But the number one thing I couldn't stand about Christmas this year was that it was so downplayed. I saw less lights, trees, excitement, everything. But lets hope it will change next Christmas.
The New Year
Let the countdown begin. It's almost the NEW YEAR! But I don't know if I am as into it as I was before. I am not really interested in any resolution. I am just going to hang my friends and spend it at church :)
Some of you guys may be different from me but, no matter what you choose I hope you have fun.
Have a happy new year everyone.
Thank you to all of my blog readers and you will get even more in the new year.
It's that time of the year again:) It"s Christmas!!
Time to set up the Christmas lights, turn on the oven and get some cooking done.
Don't know what to do this Christmas here is some advice on having a great Christmas.
1. Be early for all family events.
2. Dress age appropriately for all events. Do not walk around with you boobs hanging out and butt falling out of our dress to your office's Christmas party.
3. There is no such thing as too much food. Growing up in Jamaica Christmas has always had an abundance of food: Ham, bread pudding and everything else Caribbean. This being said I am not sure if this would be the best time to start dieting. You may end up gaining more weight than anything else.
4. If you don't know the perfect gift to buy please ASK. The thing I can't stand the most around the holidays is a person buying some tacky gift and then saying I thought of you when I was buying it. That just makes it seem like I have some terrible style or something. So please people if you don't know just ask.
5. Christmas decorations are a must, so before you go around inviting visitors ensure that your house is fully decked out for the season.
6. Too much alcohol is never your friend. Please do not walk around for most of he Christmas season drunk because trust me that is not cute.
7. Do not hook up with random people because you're lonely. Christmas is usually a time where you see a lot of persons getting married or hooking up. If you're single like I am please do not fall prey to emotions. You do not want to be that girl to hook up that one time and have the horrible consequences follow you forever.
8. Please remember that everything done in the holidays will follow you through to the new year. God may forgive but people may not so easily.
Ok I don't know about you guys, but Christmas is like my favourite time of year. In Jamaica especially it still feels like summer so, I get the best of both worlds. I get all of that food, sunshine, warm water and everything else in between. I am so happy that I get to go on vacation in Montego Bay, Jamaica. If any of you guys or girls are going to be near just let me know.
But before I go there are some movies I just have to see.
I like mostly comedies and movies with great storylines, so if you are scary movie fan these are probably not for you.
In the middle of this I have to recognize the passing of one of the greatest heroes this world has ever known. He took a stand when others would have never dared to.
I cannot stress this topic enough. It is very important to look great when doing whatever you're doing but, if the only thing you have going for you is your looks you may have a major problem. Don't just be one of that girls waiting for someone to buy her those clothes and to "maintain" her lifestyle. It is always great to have someone to take care of you but, always make sure that you can take care of yourself if he leaves.
The number one stereotype I cannot stand held by many business persons is that once a woman is beautiful and well dressed she will not be a good business woman. People generally just think that once you look that great, you should just be some trophy wife who has no place thinking about business. This being said, women you have to work harder to be respected, some of you need to stop acting like you are brain dead! Act like you have some common sense in a boardroom, always be prepared and for God sakes don't sleep your way to the top...unless the boss is you husband *laughs*
GOOD MORNING MY BEAUTIES :)
I don't know if you have been keeping up with the Jamaican music scene later, I know I was not really before until I came across these two talents.
One of them you may already know, her name is Samantha J. She is a sixteen year old artist which you may know for her son "tight up skirt."
This was made a remix for Jamaican artist Red Rat's song "tight up skirt" made in the 1990's.
I am not even going to joke she is a great artist especially, just being 16. But, would I want to be the parent of 16 year old singing that she is the girl in the tight up skirt...probably not. I am going to give her props where they are due she is a great artist and I wish her best of luck.
Our other talent is a Jamaican producer from CRF BEATZ known as Rovaunie. He is a gospel producer but, I do think he has places to go. He provides a new and edgy look to the Jamaican gospel scene.
OMG have you guys seen Kim K lately. I just love her new body, the change looks wonderful. When she was pregnant with North she didn't look that great but, that was understandable...I mean she was pregnant! I didn't understand why people were making fun of her, I mean get a grip. I still love her style and will forever love her style.
Soooooo *start the music*
Today to show you what I am really talking about, I am going to show you some before and afters of Kim K, during and after pregnancy.
BEFORE
THE GLAM AFTER!
I am so glad she is back to a state where she is actually comfortable with herself.
She is the prefect example of no matter how much weight you wait in pregnancy you can always get to where you want to be.
